Category Archives: Home & Garden

Backyard idyll

Today: bliss. No rowdy kids’ camp over the fence, no yard crews, no tree work, road work, or house renovations. Comfortable shade. A trickling water feature. AND BIRDS!

We have: sparrows, grackles, cardinals, blue jays, nut hatches, woodpeckers, finches, and titmice.

There were three grackles on the feeder moments before this photo, looking positively mythic.

The brads which Ken hammered into the fence post have helped deter squirrel launches but don’t appear to be particularly bothersome to the lightweight sparrows.

Such peace is necessary, always, but maybe especially on a day that began with footage of our traitorous, delusional leader meeting with Putin. The red carpet! The changed tactics! The grinning, handshaking, the references to Alaska as Russia (a third gaffe on the jet saying he was ‘going back to the States’?)

Picture this: me propped up with pillows reading my phone. It’s after nine and I’ve just woken. Ken comes in, refreshed after a shower. He’s been up since seven. I say (first words of the day to him), “You gotta read Masha Gessen’s piece in the Times today.”

So yeah, birds. Flapping, swooping, bathing, pecking, bickering, flying, calling, feeding — BIRDS. Doing their thing.

*****

Here’s a gift link to the opinion piece if you’re interested.

Memory, Key Lime Pie, John Lewis

For some reason, the sound of two motorcycles furiously racing down Route 9 last night evoked a memory of childhood. It’s a summer evening, say 1965, on the banks of the Mohawk River, Schenectady. My parents have just played several rounds of tennis at Collins Park while we three kids roamed around, never far from the thud of a serve and the rhythmic volley that followed. We’re getting ice cream at Jack in the Box. Yum — vanilla soft serve. It’s July, which means the shadows hold off in a way that makes the day seem endless, in a season that feels endless. Time would return soon enough, of course, in late August when we’d head to Sam’s for new Keds and wander the school supply aisle of Woolworth’s for pencils and erasers. I still love buying pens and notebooks! As much as the freedom of summer thrilled, I always loved going back to school.

C and his girlfriend are in town for a wedding on the Cape. In fact, they should just be sitting down right now at a farm in Falmouth.

I’ve been wanting to make a Key Lime Pie for a bit now and having kiddos home is as good a reason as any.

Even I won’t touch a product with an expiration date of 2012. Sweetened condensed milk.

The hard part will be waiting til tomorrow to have a slice.

To close, a few pix from the Good Trouble rally at Newton City Hall from Thursday, July 17. It was a little underwhelming, still I’m glad we went, especially to hear a pastor exhort us (white suburbanites) to step forward and do our part because “Black people are tired.”

Garden momentum

I didn’t mean to garden for such a stretch of time, but there I was, hatless and without sun screen, pruning, transplanting, weeding, filling the feeder, turning a dead Rose o’ Sharon into a bottle tree.

It didn’t matter that I had just assigned myself the task of reviewing screenshots on my phone. (Ugh). Even if I’d been doing something enjoyable, this could have happened. How do I know? Because it happens all the time.

Fact: the only time I missed one of the kid’s friend’s birthday parties, I gardening.

See the robin?

Wrapping up

Saturday, June 28, 2025

Usually, after a trip to California I add something to my household that from then on feels essential. How did I live without it before? One year, it was a rice cooker, another, a Dyson stick vacuum. This year, it’s gonna be a new waffle maker and bourbon vanilla extract. Used the extract for French toast this morning — yum!

Heading home shortly. I don’t know why, but when I get back I want to do a deep cleaning of the downstairs.

In case you’re not on Instagram, here I am modeling my new haircut. Billy’s caregiver used to be a stylist and a good one as it turns out. Did you know you should change your side part every other month?

Christmas in July. For trump, that is.

I’ll say no more about SCOTUS for now, but holy fucking Christ.

Two Insomnia Collages to end.