Traveling with grief

The first indigo workshop I attended, SC, 2014

We’re flying American instead of our usual United because I refuse to make a connection in Denver. Not now, maybe not ever.

We are Santa Fe bound! Neither Ken nor I have ever been there, so we’re excited.

I also already can’t wait to get home.

I’m very much looking forward to a three-day gathering: Indigo and Ancestral Memory. There will be a day of dyeing followed by two days of ritual and conversation. The lead up to this weekend has been filled with inspiring and heart-warming phone calls and emails. I already feel held by the group. I know I will come away changed.

As for hiking and Georgia O’Keeffe? Meh.

A wise friend of mine commented yesterday, “Look, you’re gonna feel bad here. You’re gonna feel bad there. You might as well feel bad somewhere else.”

You’ll never guess what I AM looking forward to: a yummy plate of authentic enchiladas!

(It occurs to me that having a tag here for “grief” might be ridiculous.)

Meanwhile, C is touring the Amazon!

3 thoughts on “Traveling with grief”

  1. RobertaWa

    “Look, you’re gonna feel bad here. You’re gonna feel bad there. You might as well feel bad somewhere else.”

    I could not have said it better myself. It is stuck like glue. Enjoy Santa Fe. I have not been. I was supposed to be in a show there once upon a time but then Covid happened and everything was cancelled.

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    1. deemallon Post author

      I’ve described grief this way: it’s a room you occupy, not a path you follow.

      In this case, it should be revised to: “it’s in every room you occupy.”

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